After long enough together, it sometimes becomes easy to forget, but the easiest way to strengthen a relationship is to simply remember to say, “i love u.” It’s unfortunate, but love is something that a person can easily grow accustomed to and take for granted. But, there are so many ways to remind your partner, and so many ways to say i love u.
In the early stages of a relationship, these things come much easier. It’s almost second nature to send an i love u poem, or i love u cards. But, as time goes on, love doesn’t necessarily fade, but it does spread out and become more engrained in out everyday actions.
In the same manner that we sometimes have a bad day and need to be reminded that there is someone out there who loves us, our partners need this reassurance too. In reality, how hard is it consciously decide to conveniently drop an i love u every single day?
The easiest way to start is to make sure to end ever phone conversation with an i love u. It’s a great entry back into the world of regular affirmations of love. It will start out with saying “i love u, goodbye.” And, very shortly it will turn into “good morning! i really love u!”
Another great idea is to pick an arbitrary day of each month and decide that you’re going to treat this day differently. Every anniversary and birthday, we all make a point of going out of our way for our partner. But, why does it only have to be certain days of the year that we act like this? On this predetermined day, treat your partner like it is there birthday: write them i love u poems, give them i love u cards, and get them small gifts, all without telling them why. Let them know, without even saying anything that this day is special because you think they are special!
You can also decide to dedicate a certain time of every day to your partner. It is very easy in today’s society to live very individual lives, even in a home you are sharing with your partner. Through television, the internet and hobbies, coupled with the everyday workings of our unique lives, it is very easy for a partner to get lost in the shuffle. If you make a decision to spend, say, your first hour at home every night focused on the needs of your partner, this will go a long way towards bringing your two individual lives to a concrete center. Just sit down and ask how your partner’s day was. Ask what is going on in their lives. And, above all, tell them you love them!
After a very short time of the i love u lifestyle, you will start to observe a very noticeable change: your relationship will become so much stronger! As your partner realizes that you love them very much, you will start to realize that they fell the same way about you.
Thursday, October 22, 2009
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